Are You Ready to be a Parent?

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Parenthood is a journey of learning and growing.

“Am I ready to be a parent?” is a deeply personal question and varies by person.

Rarely, is it a simple ‘yes’ or ‘no’ response.

Deep consideration of this life-altering decision is encouraged.

Think beyond having a baby to the bigger picture of raising a child.

Are You Ready?

5 Key Areas to Consider

Emotional Resilence

Parenting is a roller coaster of emotional highs and lows.

There is the joy of milestones but also the stress of illness and sleepless nights coupled with tantrums, endless questions and worries.

How emotionally intelligent are you?

  • Do you have mature coping mechanisms?
  • Can you encourage effort, not perfection?
  • Do you listen before solving or correcting?
  • How do you validate emotions?
  • Can you nurture, be patient and manage your own emotions while helping your child cope and grow?
  • Are you calm under pressure? Can you pause rather than react?
  • Are you mentally prepared for lifestyle changes?
  • How do you solve problems, alone and with your partner? How will you teach problem solving to your child?
  • Are you willing to forego your own insecurities and allow your child to expand beyond your own limitations?
  • Are you ready for the physical demands of child rearing? Do you prioritize wellness and a healthy lifestyle?
  • How will you respond to a child who develops a different value system from yours?
  • Do you keep promises?
  • Can you prioritize sleep routines for not only the child but the family?
  • Do you admit when you are wrong?

Parenting Philosophy or Approach

Have you discussed parenting styles? Discipline approaches? Division of responsibilities, education and values?

You and your partner being aligned on parenting philosophies, expectations and responsibilities is essential to a healthy family home. Parenting is a team effort.

  • What family culture do you wish to create?
  • What role do you see children playing in your family life? There was a time when children were seen as “help.” How do you and your partner see children fitting into your life?
  • What does your family picture look like? One child, or multiple children?
  • What morals and values are most important to you and your partner and how will you share these with your child? What will you do if these do not align?
  • What role does faith play in your family life?
  • What traditions from your own upbringing do you want to incorporate into your family life?
  • What do you know about normal child development?
  • Do you understand your role is to raise a child to release into the world who contributes to society in a healthy manner? Or, will you use your child as a weapon or a shield against creating your own adult life?
  • How will you interact with extended family like cousins, aunts and uncles?
  • What is your view on multi-generational housing?
  • Are grandparents just babysitters or something more?
  • A child deserves to create memories with both sides of the family. What will you do to ensure the balance of time and activity between both families?
  • What is your viewpoint on discipline? Is family a democracy or do parents set the rules?
  • Do you want your child to have the latest toys? How do you feel about experiences vs items as gifts?
  • What is your vision for celebrating milestones in a child’s life? Do you understand children learn and develop among others their age? Who is on the invite list? Where is the celebration?
  • Are you willing to assess what your child’s interests are and expose them to opportunities to investigate those? Will you make time to devote to the child’s interests or will yours still trump his?
  • How will you provide support and care for your own aging parents when raising your own family?

Lifestyle

Are you ready as a couple?

The first couple of years of parenthood stretch you. There is a lack of sleep, financial demands, perhaps unusual illnesses and little time for one another.

If both partners are not committed to parenting or do not communicate effectively or work well as a team, introducing a child into this equation will be challenging.

  • Are you and your partner ready to set a good example of what love between adults looks like in the home?
  • Do you know how to resolve conflict without withdrawing from the conversation, or resorting to physical or verbal abuse?
  • Children require predictable schedules and full attention. Are you ready to give them this?
  • Can you put your personal interests/hobbies mostly aside and shift your priorities to creating a healthy family life?
  • Can you prioritize a child’s needs over your own without resentment?
  • Do you make sacrifices without resentment? Parenting often means foregoing certain products or activities to meet a child’s need. A good parent feels good about being able to provide while sacrificing his own needs for his child.
  • Are annual vacations important? Where do you like to travel to? How will these be funded? At what age will these start?

Support System

There is a learning curve to parenting.

How will you learn to parent?

Don’t be afraid to reach out for help.

Are your parents or grandparents good examples of child rearing? Is there another role model in your life to guide you? Will you seek information from a pediatrician, parent educator or support group?

Remember, support of family and friends for guidance, relief and help is priceless.

Today 40 percent of U.S. children are born into single parent households. Regardless if a child is born into a partnership or a single-family home, a support system is needed. Someone who is a constant source of love, attention and help.

Financial Readiness

The USDA’s Expenditures on Children by Families report in 2025 estimated it costs roughly $322,427 to raise a child in a middle-income family.

Love is the primary nourishment for the child; however, a strong financial foundation in the home is crucial.

  • Does your income provide adequately for the costs of having a child?
  • Does your work schedule support family time?
  • What role does money play in your life?
  • How will you teach financial literacy and responsibility to your child?
  • What example of responsible money management and good citizenship will you set for your family? Are you greedy? Are you always seeking handouts and discounts? Do you complain to get something for free? Do you act entitled?  Do you contribute to any charities? What do the answers to these questions teach a child?
  • Will someone be a stay-at-home parent? How does this affect your long-term financial goals?
  • Do you have funds for a 529 education plan?
  • Public or private schools?
  • Do you have health insurance?
  • What happens if someone in the family gets ill or incapacitated? Do you have adequate insurance and a plan?
  • Have you arranged for childcare, if needed?
  • Have you found babysitters for needed time away from your child?
  • What provisions have you made for an unhealthy delivery or child in the NICU?
  • Saving or spending? What is the priority?

Parenting readiness is complicated. It is a significant lifelong decision.

Thinking about these questions and discussing them with a partner or other people can help you make an educated choice.

In fact, just taking the time to discuss these questions honestly and openly will make you a better parent.

3 Reasons Not to Parent

  1. You feel pressure to have a child. You may hear insensitive remarks like, “Your eggs are drying up. Do you want to be a spinster?”  Always, avoid outside pressures. Consider your own goals and aspirations before becoming a parent.
  2. You need a child to fix the relationship. Never use a child to fix a troubled relationship. Adding a child to a struggling union only adds additional stress on both you and the child. Instead, address why the relationship needs fixing before you add a child to the family.
  3. You want a child to fulfill you. Understand your motivations to be a parent and set clear expectations. It is not a child’s responsibility to fulfill emotional needs for a parent. Remember, a child is not a substitute for the love of a parent, partner or friends.

What other advice would you have for someone considering the honor of being a parent?

Personal Note: Ken and I have been parents for over 3 decades. Hindsight, we very much would have valued a checklist with these questions for thoughtful discussion.

Share with anyone you know who is considering being a parent or wants to step back and answers these questions as a parent today.

©​May 2026 Linda Leier Thomason. All Rights Reserved.

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Granny Dumping & Unclaimed Ashes

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Two Growing Social Problems

At my age and life experience it takes a lot to stun me.

But I am taken aback by two social problems growing in our country.  

#1: Granny Dumping, and

#2: Unclaimed cremation ashes left at funeral homes and places of worship.

What is Granny Dumping?

Simply put, granny dumping is the abandonment of an elderly person in public places like hospitals, nursing homes, emergency rooms and hotels.

It is a serious form of elder abuse labeled in the 1980s by medical and social work professionals who recognized this growing, troubling practice.

A “caregiver,” usually a family member, intentionally leaves the frail elderly person without any care, support or supervision. They refuse to return to pick up the person.

This is especially troubling if the elder has diminished mental capacity, or hearing and vision loss and cannot identify themselves or the person who left them behind.

For medical institutions, granny dumping is a real concern because the person dumped generally requires not only medical attention but also shelter and assistance with ADLs-activities of daily living. It creates a financial and human resource strain within the institution.

Why It’s Happening

Granny dumping happens when family members are unable or unwilling to continue providing care.

The most common reasons given for this serious form of elder abuse are:

  • Financial challenges such as the high cost of in-home or assisted living care
  • Limited access to resources like home health, adult day care and assisted living
  • Burnout from the emotional and physical toll of caregiving
  • Unwillingness to help or inability to caretake

Advocacy Film

I was exposed to the concept of granny dumping at the 21st Annual Omaha Film Festival where the short film S A V E R I O was shown. (This Oscar-qualified short film is being shown at the 2026 Cannes Film Festival.)

Afterwards, Ellen Ancui, the writer and director, spoke passionately of this growing nationwide problem and why it inspired her to create a film about it.

She urges policy makers to familiarize themselves with the concept to end this inhumane practice. “Change starts with awareness.”

Information & Statistics

Is It Against the Law to Leave an Elderly Person Alone? – LegalClarity

ABANDONMENT OF THE ELDERLY

https://openyls.law.yale.edu/server/api/core/bitstreams/0421260a-68f7-4631-82ab-569d9ccd1bee/content

Omaha Film Festival – Dedicated to Presenting Quality Independent Films

Unclaimed Cremation Ashes

Engaged in a consulting gig, I audited a metropolitan church’s financial records which showed a significant dollar amount for unclaimed and unwanted urn burials for multiple years.

This expense piqued my curiosity.

Why was the church assuming the cost of burying urns?

Why wasn’t the family paying for this service?

It turns out, all across the country, families are abandoning cremains leaving the responsibility of what to do with unclaimed or unwanted ashes to funeral homes, crematories and/or places of worship.

Why Ashes are Unclaimed

According to funeral.com, uncollected remains are rarely about neglect and more often about disruption.

  • Family may live in another state
  • Costs
  • The executor is overwhelmed
  • Next of kin is difficult to identify and reach
  • The person who arranged cremation does not have legal authority to claim the remains
  • Emotional inability to bring ashes home or bury them

If Ashes Aren’t Claimed

Funeral homes have legal and ethical obligations and industry regulations to direct them on how to handle unclaimed ashes with dignity and respect.

Generally, if ashes are not claimed from a funeral home or crematory, they will be placed in temporary urn storage.

The next steps vary state by state and sometimes by county within states.

If Ashes Aren’t Wanted

As in my church client’s situation, urns are intentionally left at the church when the person with legal authority does not want the remains.

Sadly, there is often family conflict about what to do with the remains, especially when costs are discussed.

This church always reaches back with compassion to the family to claim the remains.

If that attempt is unsuccessful, they follow lawful options and continue to treat ashes with dignity, documenting and recording all urn burials.

More Information

What Happens to Cremated Ashes If Not Collected? – LegalClarity

Unclaimed Ashes | Unwanted Ashes | Memorial Options — The Living Urn

What Happens to Unclaimed or Uncollected Cremation Ashes (And How to C | Funeral.com, Inc.

What Happens to Unclaimed Ashes: The Responsibilities of Funeral Homes – ForeverYard

Your Opinion

What do you think?

Were you aware of granny dumping and unclaimed ashes?

How can you advocate for solutions to these growing social problems?

Share your experience(s) and opinions here.

©​May 2026 Linda Leier Thomason. All Rights Reserved.

Rich-a Deeply Grateful Man with 3 Cancers

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Men: Get Health Screenings

Rich, Deanne & their grandchildren.

“Having colon cancer was one of the best things that has ever happened to me.”

Rich, 58, husband to Deanne, father to Kayla and Brandon, and grandfather to five, believes colon cancer saved his life.

Like many German ancestry, farm-raised North Dakotan males, Rich grew up in the “no blood no foul” era where if something hurt you believed you could walk it off and everything would be okay.  He’d convince himself he overlifted or it had been a while since he lifted something that heavy, so it made sense he was hurting.

Yet, Rich has been getting annual wellness exams for about 25 years. These were the only doctor visits he had as he hasn’t had many health concerns in his life.

He was proud of never having a sick day at work since April 2008.

Older and wiser and both a cancer patient & survivor he is learning to stop toughing it out and listen to his body…a work in progress.

He urges men to pay attention to their health, always.

You Have Cancer

Rich’s first colonoscopy was at age 52. (Now recommended that those at average risk of colorectal cancer get screened at age 45.) Colorectal Cancer Guideline | How Often to Have Screening Tests | American Cancer Society.

In March 2025, Rich, now 57, was feeling good and thought he could forgo the five-year colon cancer screening because he was “feeling fine and didn’t have any issues”.  Deanne, a breast cancer survivor, felt otherwise insisting he keep this appointment.

No polyps were found during the colonoscopy.

Instead, a tumor was discovered. The doctor was almost certain it was cancerous.

Rich was in disbelief. “I kept telling myself I had nothing to worry about. He must be mistaken. I have no symptoms. I feel well. This isn’t cancer.”

He was wrong.

Biopsy results indicated cancer. “The straightforwardness of the doctor saying I had cancer was hard to hear.”.

Thereafter, a flurry of appointments followed, including meeting with a surgeon and scheduling his first-ever CT scan.

CT Finds Other Issues

Rich and Deanne were taken aback with the CT results which yielded a laundry list of findings.

His surgeon explained Rich not only had colon cancer he had:

  • Lesions on both kidneys
  • Two hernias
  • Gallstones
  • Fatty liver
  • Enlarged prostate
  • Lung nodules

Together they prioritized his care and on April 17, 2025, he underwent colon cancer surgery. 

Afterwards, guided by a hospital nutritionist, he learned to make food choices that were less stressful on his newly routed colon.

Two days later, he walked out of the hospital.

Days later he met with the surgeon’s PA for a post-op appointment followed by an oncology appointment. Here he received the best news so far in his journey: His colon cancer was detected so early it was coded Stage 1. Removal was all he would need for treatment.

He was colon cancer free.

Rich felt both a sense of gratitude and relief.

In July 2025, he had one of two hernias surgically repaired. The groin hernia repair, since it was not bothersome, was postponed.

Kidneys & Prostate

A six-month CT scan in October 2025 to check on the colon healing process showed the kidney lesions remained.

In January 2026, Rich had surgery to remove three of them from his right kidney. These were all Oncocytomas-non cancerous growths.  Renal Oncocytoma: Causes, Symptoms, Diagnosis & Treatment.

The left kidney lesions were needle biopsied on November 12, 2025. One is cancerous.

UPDATE: On May 19, 2026, he had a Cryoablation procedure to freeze the cancerous tumor on his left kidney. Doctors hope the tumor gets to a point where it looks like a scar on his kidney.

A prostate biopsy in December 2025 showed that one or two of the 12 samples returned with cancer cells in them. These were caught so early that they did not even appear on the MRI that was done prior to the biopsy. Today, his medical team is continuously monitoring this matter.

Coping

Rich admits that as a male of German heritage he is inclined to keep his emotions internal. However, he was frustrated by the initial colon cancer diagnosis.

“I did have days where keeping my emotions internal was not easy and that was okay. I knew I needed to release them. I would cry when the weight of what I was going through hit me.”

“I am surrounded by super supportive immediate and extended family and friends. My work and my coworkers help me get through these days by just keeping my mind from overthinking all of the diagnoses.”

“As a male, I quickly moved into the “how do we fix this” and “who do we need to meet with to ensure it is fixed phase.”

Through time Rich has progressed to believing he is “blessed and that his life is in God’s hands.”

He understands how fortunate he is to have listened to his wife Deanne and followed through with the routine colonoscopy and the CT scan.

These tests were early detection screenings for all the medical matters he is now managing.

New Normal

Figuring out this new normal is the only challenge Rich admits to facing today. “For instance, what is my new pain level? Is this side pain a kidney issue or a ‘getting old’ pain, or something else?”

A sense of humor is mandatory for a complete recovery.

Rich says his post-surgical recovery has been “very easy. I haven’t had much pain. Though my abdominal area looks like I have been wrestling a grizzly bear with 13 scars and counting!”

As a manager for a less-than-truckload company who manages weighing of freight as well as ensuring the company is being paid what it is owed for hauling it, Rich has been blessed by an employer’s understanding of his medical appointments and conditions.

 “Other than having to now keep a calendar of both work and medical appointments, there have been no changes to my professional life.”

He has changed his daily habits by:

  • Eliminating most sodas and alcohol
  • Increasing water intake
  • Reducing bread from his diet
  • Eating more digestible foods like yogurts and applesauce
  • Paying more attention to his health and body
  • Attempting to worry less about work since he is not yet at retirement age
  • Changing his attitude about “toughing it out”
  • Learning to be comfortable with his life and his death

“I have not had to give anything up other than what I decide to remove or cut back on.”

And his greatest joy continues to be being surrounded by his family, watching his grandchildren and assuring them “I will be alright.”

Biggest Lessons Learned

A reflective Rich shared the lessons learned on his journey to date.

 They are:

1. Just because you can doesn’t mean you should-Lifting, jumping, etc. “I wish I wouldn’t have jumped off so many trucks and trailers over the years. It doesn’t help with my pain.”

2. Listen to your body. It might be telling you something you don’t want to hear.  Or telling you something that can save your life.

3.  Don’t be afraid to ask medical professionals questions. Then, listen to them. They are there to help.

4.  You are stronger than you think when dealing with recovery.

5.  The earlier you catch what ails you, the easier the plan.

6. When in doubt, get it checked out.

To Do

  • Schedule and follow through on annual wellness exams and screenings
  • Find a medical team, starting with your primary doctor, that recommends routine checks and closely follows your care.
  • Know your family history. Share yours with your extended and immediate family.
  • Listen to your body. Get anything unusual checked out.
  • Put fear aside. Medical advances are amazing and rapid. Cancer does not need to be scary.

“My one-year appointments are coming up.

I will be thanking my doctor for saving my life.

My colon cancer was caught early. My kidney issues and prostate cancer were caught early. These are all wonderful things when it comes to cancer.

I am forever grateful for that colon cancer screening.”

Additional Reading

Cancer Facts for Men | American Cancer Society

10 cancer symptoms men shouldn’t ignore | UT MD Anderson

15 First Signs of Cancer in Men: Quick Guide to Early Symptoms

Understanding men’s health risks: Why many avoid the doctor’s office, according to a UCLA urologist – Urology | UCLA Health

Men’s Health | Why Men Skip the Doctor | Dignity Health

Experts Tell Us This Is Why Men Avoid Going to the Doctor

Livestrong at the YMCA – Livestrong

Share your questions, words of encouragement & support and/or comments for Rich below.

No part of this piece was AI generated.

©​April 2026 Linda Leier Thomason. All Rights Reserved.

Cancer is Now Part of My Life

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Though It Doesn’t Define Me

It’s not true to say, “I never thought cancer would happen to me” because I don’t think like this.

But it is very true to say, “I was completely caught off guard.”

Since early September 2025, I have been managing a breast cancer diagnosis like 59,000 others diagnosed this year with ductal carcinoma in situ (DCIS)-a non-invasive form of cancer. Breastcancer.org  Ductal carcinoma in situ (DCIS) – Symptoms and causes – Mayo Clinic

Summers are busy. As ours was ending, I felt exhausted. I looked worn out. I attributed this to a level of physical and social activity that brought me great joy. So, I blamed my lack of energy on age and activity level.

I was wrong.

Mammograms

August 4th Annual Screening Mammogram

I calmly strolled into Omaha’s CHI Lakeside Hospital for a routine screening mammogram on August 4th. This year I also had my biennial DEXA bone scan. Before leaving, the radiologist spoke to me about suspicious areas on my breast scan. I agreed to a follow-up diagnostic mammogram on the 20th. Again, I didn’t panic. Several years ago, I also had to have additional screenings. All with no worrisome outcomes.

 This year it was different.

The radiologist shared the enlarged images and areas of concern. I grew troubled looking at the scattered calcifications.

I was super relieved to hear this was caught in a very early stage and grateful for my commitment to annual screenings.

Admittedly, I left in a daze.

So much information was given in a rapid pace.

Sadly, healthcare professionals dispense this news frequently. All of this was new to me.

My absorption wasn’t keeping pace with their information flow. I was still stuck silently asking myself “How?”  I didn’t recall any breast pain or discharges. There were no lumps.

I’ve learned DCIS doesn’t generally cause symptoms.

Timing Matters

Coincidentally, I was becoming Medicare eligible on September 1st. The timing was one of the many blessings on this health journey.

We likely wouldn’t be overburdened by costs while managing the cancer.

After a celebratory trip to Winnipeg, Manitoba Canada to mark my 65th birthday, a stereotactic breast biopsy was done on September 8th. Stereotactic breast biopsy: What happens, results, and outlook

Not to minimize the seriousness for being at CHI Lakeside Radiology, but ‘amazing’ is how I described this procedure. The technology combined with the medical staff was super impressive.  I only wish I could observe the procedure in progress and not as the patient lying prone as the biopsy is being performed.

Cancer Confirmed

Pathologists did their job.

A week later my diagnosis was confirmed.

 Next, began a rapid succession of appointments and what I call my breast cancer process or journey began.

Meet the Team

September 23rd at 7:30AM my husband of 33 years, Ken, and I sat in a room inside the Lakeside Breast Health Center awaiting conversations with my “team.”

And, what a remarkable team it has been.

Seven members including a surgeon, oncologist, radiation oncologist, nurse practitioner, social worker, nurse navigator, and an occupational therapist each spoke to us about my diagnosis, treatment plan and schedule. They patiently and completely answered our questions and concerns.

The morning was overwhelming. Yet, I’d do it this way all over again. It saved us from traveling to multiple locations throughout Omaha meeting with these practitioners individually.

Multiple Detours

A journey is seldom a straight line and mine certainly isn’t. I combined my initial Medicare wellness exam with my pre-op physical on September 30th.

What the heck?

I failed the EKG twice!

I traveled alone to Creighton University’s Bergan Mercy October 6th in the hard-driving rain to get fitted for post-surgical bras, a gift granted to CHI and graciously accepted by me.

If I had been approaching my diagnosis with disbelief, this experience awakened me to reality. I left with two custom fit bras, unlike any others in my wardrobe.

A few days later, October 9th, Ken and I returned to Bergan Mercy.

We met with Dr. Issa Asfour, a cardiologist fellow and outstanding practitioner. And, after a successful exam and ECHO, he weaned me off of a heart prescription I’d been on since 1983.

I left thinking I was now surgery ready.

Wrong.

I was seen by an internist October 10th as my right toe became inflamed. Why? Just why?

No one knows.

After antibiotics and endless Epsom Salt soaks, I was infection free and cleared another hurdle for the October 17th lumpectomy.

Managing Life & Cancer

Life continues between endless medical appointments.

Emotions bounce all over the place. I know this as I’ve journaled my experience.

There was a first-time professional family photo session, a daughter-in-law’s birthday, a son’s birthday, holidays and tons of other social and business matters to tend to.

The online forms and paperwork and scheduling seemed endless.

I’m now officially retired.

I wondered how those working full-time cope with both the diagnosis and all of the “business of the disease”.  

Seeded & Operated

A mag seed marker was placed in my right breast by a radiologist and her outstanding team on October 16th at Lakeside’s Breast Health Center. This marker helped surgeon, Dr. McNamara, locate and remove tissue during surgery the next day.

Again, the technology and procedure were fascinating. Lumpectomy Surgery with Magseed® | Patient Resources

We arrived at Lakeside’s Outpatient Surgery Center at 5:30AM for the lumpectomy.

My journal entry at 4:12AM that day reveals I awakened at 2:30, took a shower and prepared to leave. “I have a celebratory feeling within me, which may seem unusual for someone heading to a hospital for a lumpectomy. This diagnosis and process have been long and sometimes overwhelming. Now being close to this finish line feels like something to applaud. I feel embraced by all of the prayers being put out there for me today. I know they will also touch my medical team.”

Support & Contact Matter

I initially was deliberate in holding this diagnosis to a very small circle of family and friends.

Those that knew were relentless in their support.

My gratitude for their texts, calls, flowers, food, cards, offers to drive and/or run errands, gifts and prayers is endless.

Going through cancer is both overwhelming and lonely.

Sitting in prescribed isolation is isolating. Speaking to others on the phone or via Facetime is rehabilitating.

This experience has taught me a lot about how to support others with their health challenges.

Leading with compassion and kindness for others is important. So many carry invisible burdens.

I also gained some self-respect through this process. A cancer journey is not easy. Going through it and all of the detours awakened my internal strength and persistence. I might even have more self-compassion resulting from this journey.

CHI Lakeside does offer support groups and one-on-one counseling during one’s journey.

Ken and I attended a Thanksgiving luncheon for breast cancer survivors sponsored by this department. We found it informational and a valuable use of our time.

Recovery

The best medicine for me is not in a pill bottle but rather the presence and genuine embraces of loved ones.

Our Omaha based son and his family, including grandsons aged two and four, visited the day after surgery. I was guided on an outdoor walk by toddlers, which most certainly advanced my healing. 😊

Ken assumed many household chores and responsibilities while continuing to work as a Certified Financial Planner.

I saw the weariness and devotion to “in sickness and in health.”

As with most surgeries, there were restrictions. I followed them closely.

Post Surgical

October 28th, Ken and I met with oncologist Dr. Geetha Palaniappan at Nebraska Cancer Specialists. We had an initial discussion on hormone blocking medications, but another detour was necessary prior to beginning such treatment. My bones were uncooperative.

We saw surgeon, Dr. Michael McNamara, on Halloween.

All were pleased with my progress and healing.

Radiation Therapy

Radiation
Stellar radiation therapists
Dr. Hadi Zahra & Nurse Maureen

Dr. Hadi Zahra, radiation oncologist, met with us on November 10th to discuss the radiation plan. We were relieved that only five sessions were necessary.

Take a win when one is given.

A routine dental cleaning on November 20th indicated I had an abscessed upper left molar that needed excision.

Another healthcare detour in the 4th quarter of 2025.

Admittedly, I was frustrated with the compounding breakdowns but plunged ahead knowing any tantrum wouldn’t advance my cause.

My mantra: One step. One day at a time. It’s a process and a journey.

Ken accompanied me to all but two radiation appointments. Our son, Alex, covered for the others.

While one does not need a driver, the moral support was deeply appreciated.

On November 24th a CT simulation was completed at Bergan Mercy. This produces a scan used to plan the angles and shapes of the radiation beams for treatment. A mold of my head was also made for positioning.  A CT scan was taken. Skin markings/tattoos were placed on my skin using a sterile needle to deliver the pin-size drop of ink. These marks act as landmarks to help with positioning during radiation sessions.

Radiation sessions are painless and, in my case, lasted about five minutes on December 1, 3, 5, 8 and 10th. Each Wednesday we met with Dr. Zahra to get a progress report.

I celebrated “graduating” from radiation on the 10th along with the certificate they awarded me.

This is a journey.

Another finish line crossed.

Ken’s presence & support immeasurable
Radiation Graduation Day!

In the interim, on November 26th, I met with oral surgeon, Dr. Engel, who agreed to extract the abscessed tooth on December 16th. This was not a pain-free procedure as radiation was, but a very necessary one.

CHI Nurse Navigator, Nicole, worked on my behalf to obtain another antibiotic to treat an infection that now appeared on my left big toe.

I have to admit that when this toe redness appeared now on the other foot, it was the first time I was both mad and frustrated during this entire journey.

Prior, I kept all of this very businesslike.

One step down on an action plan.

Next.

I felt God was giving me a ton of credit for thinking I’m capable of carrying all of these maladies at one time.

But I was momentarily mad.

Bones Complicate

Anyone who knows me knows I slant to the left. Not politically, structurally.

I’ve dealt with scoliosis since my teenage years.

I’ve had DEXA bone scans since 2002. These scans measure bone mineral density and assess the risk of osteoporosis and fractures. I’ve been skirting the osteopenia and osteoporosis line for a number of years.

On the same day I discovered I had DCIS I learned my bones crossed over to osteoporosis.

This complicates matters for oncologists because many hormone blocking medications have negative effects on bones.

Dr. Geetha, oncologist, rightfully referred me to endocrinologist Dr. Radha Andukuri at Women’s Methodist for a consultation Ken and I attended December 18th.

Additional blood work on December 19th confirmed high bone turnover and need for medications. The Treatment and Monitoring of Osteoporosis using Bone Turnover Markers | Published in Orthopedic Reviews

So, while my breast cancer journey is nearing the conclusion of Phase 1, my new bone journey is just beginning.

I’m grateful for the cooperation and communication between endocrinologist Dr. Andukuri and oncologist Dr. Geetha.

I know I am in trusting and professionally capable hands.

Moral of the Story

And that is one of the many morals and blessings to my journey.

Several have been aforementioned.

Others

  • Choose a medical team you trust. Put your faith in them to do their jobs. Thankfully, I haven’t encountered one medical professional on my journey who has not been in the right job for their level of skill and compassion.
  • Educate yourself. I’ve researched and written about breast cancer as a freelance writer. Today, I tell the story differently because I lived, and am living, it. An abundance of information, including videos on procedures, exists online. Try to avoid going down the rabbit hole. Too much information can be overwhelming, and some is often misleading.
  • Consider generational learning. What are you teaching those younger than you about processing through a medical journey? My nieces were not only tremendously supportive but also were inquisitive about my cancer and the process. I openly responded to their questions.
  • Become your own advocate. If something seems off or wrong, ask. My experience has shown being a partner in one’s own care is viewed as positive by those providing the care. Show up to appointments with a healthy attitude.
  • Practice self-care. Sitting in front of the computer researching or lounging on the sofa is never good self-care. Take a walk. Read. Color. Garden. Nap. Cook healthy meals. Try to get a good night’s sleep (a work in progress for me). Journal. Call friends. Get a massage. Pray. You are not just a cancer patient. You are a human being.
  • Understand and accept the volatility of emotions. This pertains to your own and those of your caretakers. Going through medical challenges is not an everyday matter. Expect to feel a wide range of emotions, all are okay. Seek mental health counseling. if needed.
  • Pause to celebrate milestones. Surprisingly, they do exist along the journey.
  • Determine what matters most. A cancer diagnosis can abruptly shift priorities. Be comfortable making changes with yours. Understand you may have time but not energy. Establish your priorities based on both time and energy.
  • Learn whom you matter to. Evaluate who you’ve been devoting your time and energies to. Being sick and in need separates people quickly. True friends offer support in whatever way they can give or way you can receive. Do individuals you have previously identified as friends show up for you in your time of need?
  • Get your annual screenings and have an annual wellness check. Science, technology and time have blessed us with tremendous advances in healthcare. Do yourself a favor and find a great team to care for you while doing your part to stay healthy.

What’s Next

I will enter the new year with more appointments, including mammograms.

Hormone blocking treatment will be discussed with my oncologist.

I will attend a post-surgical follow up appointment and see the endocrinologist after my jawbone heals to discuss bone medications.

While all of those are necessary and great, I’m most excited to work with a physical therapist and re-shape my workout routine. I’ve always been physically active. Now I will learn a new way to maintain fitness with both cancer and weakening bones.

Livestrong at the YMCA – Livestrong

In the meantime, I will continue doing what matters most to me.

Spending quality time with individuals whom I love and participating in events and excursions that fill me with great joy and satisfy my endless curiosity.

Wishing you good health and self-care in the days ahead.

📸Anna Korensky Family photo (my personal team) taken September 6, 2025, at Standing Bear Lake

2026 Update

A July diagnostic mammogram found no cancer. I am deeply grateful for that.

I continue to take hormone blocking medication in an effort to remain cancer free.

Time to celebrate a challenging year and favorable outcome.

Do you have a cancer journey tidbit or story to share? Please do.

No part of this piece was AI generated.

©December 2025 Updated July 2026 Linda Leier Thomason. All Rights Reserved.

Why & How to Plan a Super Trip to Winnipeg

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I chose Winnipeg to celebrate a milestone birthday for several reasons:

  • Drive time under 10 hours.

NOTES:

  • We did overnight in Grand Forks, North Dakota-a six hour and 47-minute drive from Omaha, Nebraska.
    • Winnipeg is literally straight north on Interstate 29 which changes into MB-75N after crossing the US/Canadian border. Passports required. Entrance to both countries was quick and efficient.
    • Learn how to convert Miles Per Hour (MPH) to Kilometers Per Hour, which is used in Canada.
  • Curiosity. We’ve visited British Columbia and New Brunswick. Excited to learn about central Canada.
  • Appealing attractions and events.
  • Ease of pre-planning. Welcome to Winnipeg | Tourism Winnipeg was mailed to us but can also easily be viewed online.

Winnipeg Info

Winnipeg, the capital and largest city in the Canadian province of Manitoba, had a population of 815,599 in 2023. It is Canada’s sixth largest city and is referred to as the “Gateway to the West.”

This multicultural city, using central standard time, is known for many things including:

  • Hosting numerous annual festivals Annual Festivals & Events | Tourism Winnipeg
  • Being named after nearby Lake Winnipeg
  • Having several sports franchises (Blue Bombers, Jets, Moose, Valour FC, Sea Bears, Goldeyes)
  • Being a railway and transportation hub with a diversified economy
  • Immigrants comprising nearly 30 percent of the population
  • English is the predominant language though more than 100 languages are spoken here
  • Being home to the Royal Canadian Mint which produces all circulating coinage in Canada. Winnipeg Mint | The Royal Canadian Mint

Day #1

St. Boniface Community

We arrived late Friday morning and drove straight to the French community of St. Boniface.

St. Boniface is the heart of Manitoba’s Francophone (a person who speaks French) Community St. Boniface | Places To Go | Travel Manitoba.

Notes:

  • Easily accessible from The Forks Home Page | The Forks area on the picturesque suspended pedestrian Provencher Bridge across the Red River. This bridge also is a 4-lane vehicular bridge.
  • Le Musee de Saint Boniface Museum is closed until 2026. Instead, we walked the area, including the Belvedere Saint-Boniface which extends over the river and offered one of the best views of The Forks and the skyline.
  • The Louis Riel tombstone is just outside the St. Boniface structure. Riel is regarded as the Father of Manitoba. Biography of Louis Riel | Province of Manitoba
  • The façade of the iconic Saint Boniface Basilica and Cathedral is less than one block from the museum. Before it was destroyed by fire in 1968, this cathedral was the largest Roman Catholic cathedral in Western Canada. Today’s cathedral exists in two portions; the modern part that functions today as a church and this historic limestone structure that dominates the area.
  • We lunched at Home | Promenade. There are plenty of fantastic dining options in the area. We enjoyed ours here.

Lodging

Discover Fort Garry Hotel – The Best Hotel in Winnipeg

We stayed at the century-old landmark Fort Garry Hotel downtown at 222 Broadway. The property is as described: a blend of historic charm with modern elegance. What appealed to us after much research comparing private rentals and other hotels was this property’s location. We could walk nearly everywhere.

Notes:

  • While the property location is ideal, parking is a challenge. ($22/daily) An upper and lower deck exist but both have limited availability and very tight spots. On a return visit, we’d likely take the valet option and avoid these frustrations.
  • The property is a much-sought-after event destination and very busy on weekends. Sometimes this translates to noise, which it did for us one evening. Security cleared the 1AM party next door to our satisfaction.
  • The staff, regardless of position, is well-trained and professional.
  • The property is pet-friendly and went out of their way to ensure an allergen-free room for us.
Taken from 6th floor tower at The Forks

The Forks

Located at 1 Forks Market Road this property sits at the junction of the Red and Assiniboine rivers. It is open seven days a week and contains retail, dining, and entertainment and events, including live music.

Notes:

Day #2

Assiniboine Park

We spent Saturday on this property Assiniboine Park Conservancy containing multiple destinations. If you enjoy nature, gardens, zoos, and simply being outdoors plan an entire day on this property.

We started the day at the Zoo. Lunched at the Gather Restaurant. Visited the English Garden and Le Mol Sculpture Garden, Stopped at the duck pond, Toured The Leaf and walked the gardens at the Leaf.

Notes:

  • Purchase tickets to both the 80-acre zoo and the Leaf online. It saves both time and money. During our visit, the Leaf was not enforcing time slots requested on purchase. This gave us much flexibility on how we used on time on this vast property.
  • Review the map of the larger property not just the zoo and/or the Leaf before arriving. It will show many other options to include in your day visit.
  • Free musical entertainment is showcased at The Leaf. Check the schedule when planning.
  • The zoo tram is helpful and readily available for those with limited mobility.
  • This is a well-kept and staffed zoo. Be sure to visit the Journey to Churchill where one can walk through a glass tunnel and, if lucky, see polar bears swimming above your head.
  • The Leaf has four indoor biomes and the highest indoor waterfall in Canada that is simply amazing. Don’t forget the butterfly garden on the top floor.
  • The English Garden and Leo Mol Sculpture Garden are side-by-side and the Riley Family Duck Pond is across the road from both. The Park Café is near the duck pond.  
The Leaf
English Gardens

Day #3

Day of Education & Information

Manitoba Legislative Building

450 Broadway 204.945.5813 or tour_reservation@mbassembly.ca

We arranged a 60-minute Sunday morning tour of this impressive public building which accommodates the Legislative Assembly and offices committees and staff, the Premier, Lieutenant Governor and ministers and deputy ministers of government departments.

Notes:

  • Tours available July through Labour Day 9AM to 4PM. Visitor Tour Program – The Legislative Assembly of Manitoba
  • No cost. Tips cannot be accepted.
  • Comfortable walk from The Fort Garry Hotel.
  • Photography allowed. Tour guide offers to take photos of guests at tour conclusion.
  • ID (passport or Driver’s License) required prior to going through security.

Lunch at Cibo Home | Cibo

  • Cibo was always mentioned when asking locals where to eat. We enjoyed an outdoor lunch here on Sunday. Food, setting & service-outstanding.
  • The restaurant is housed in a repurposed industrial building on the bank of the Red River. For many years, this “Pump and Screen House” building provided water coolant to Winnipeg’s Downtown Steam Heating Plant.

Winnipeg Chinatown Home | Winnipeg Chinatown

  • This area was the only disappointment on our visit to Winnipeg.
  • It was rundown and littered.
  • We did not dine at any of the restaurants in this area, though we were told there are many excellent ones here.

Canadian Museum for Human Rights

Canadian Museum for Human Rights 85 Israel Asper Way 204.289.2000 There is handicapped parking by the entrance.

On our way to the Museum, we were tempted by a baseball game Buy Baseball Tickets in Winnipeg | Winnipeg Goldeyes Win Big! between the Winnipeg Goldeyes and the Sioux City, Iowa Explorers that had just started. The stadium is across the street from the Museum for Human Rights, both within a comfortable walk from The Fort Garry Hotel. (Friday night games end with fireworks.)

The museum is adjacent to The Forks and one can park at The Forks.

Museum for Human Rights

Notes:

  • The first national museum dedicated to the history and understanding of human rights, offering immersive, interactive exhibits and educational programs.
  • It opened on September 14, 2014.
  • Visit the Garden of Contemplation and The Israel Asper Tower of Hope rising 100 meters into the sky and offering stunning views from the platform.
  • Take a break at Cloud Coffee and visit the first-floor gift shop.
  • Understand that the building’s architecture also tells a story. Pick up a brochure upon entry for more information.
  • Outside of the Museum and enroute the Forks, pause to watch skaters, or bring your board and join in. Enjoy Canada’s best and largest urban skate plaza and bowl complex at the Skateboard Plaza at the Forks. The Plaza at the Forks – New Line Skateparks

Other Worthy Links (We ran out of time to explore everything.)

Winnipeg Trolley Tours and Charters – Winnipeg Trolley Tours and Charters

BDI Bridge Drive-In where locals go for ice cream

nuccisgelati.ca in Little Italy on Corydon Avenue

History, Nature, and Science Museum in Winnipeg, MB – Attractions Near Me – Manitoba Museum

Manitoba Children’s Museum

Royal Manitoba Theatre Centre-Home

Spa Village in Manitoba | Thermotherapy | Thermea Spa Village Winnipeg

The Exchange District BIZ 20 block square district. Home to most patio dining in Winnipeg.

Inn at the Forks: Luxury Boutique Hotel in Winnipeg, Canada in popular area

Mere Hotel: Winnipeg Boutique Hotel | Winnipeg Hotels across the street from Cibo Café

Have you explored Canada?

What location in Canada should we visit next?

On a return trip to Winnipeg, what attraction or restaurant must we visist?

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Navigating My New Role as a Grandmother

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Christmas 2024

True Story: Delivery Driver Made me a Grandma

The groundhog Punxsutawney Phil saw his shadow February 2, 2021 predicting six more weeks of winter. That same morning, I saw my life happily change not for six weeks, but forever.

While ringing the doorbell of our son Alex’s home, a Federal Express driver bounded out of his truck carrying a long rectangular box decorated with a picture of a toddler in a crib.

Excitedly, he congratulated me while placing the box on the cold concrete, unaware I was surprising our son with a grocery delivery while his nursery furniture delivery was shocking me.

This coincidental timing has to be one of the weirdest birth announcements ever.

Their pregnancy had not yet been shared.

 I was stunned to learn I was going to become a grandmother from a delivery man.

Watching all of this play out from his basement office was our son who works from home. The doorbell camera captured my surprised look while interacting with the delivery driver.

 Alex rushed up the stairs, abruptly opened the door, quickly retrieved and placed the box inside, took my bags of groceries and closed the door without saying a word.

I stood speechless on the front stoop.

I smiled to myself, got in my vehicle and left.

Leaving their driveway, I recall thinking this is not how I would have wanted to learn I was becoming a grandmother for the first time.

I suspected this also was not the way he and his pregnant wife wanted to announce their happy news.

I was right.

My generous gesture of picking up some groceries for them while shopping for ours completely upended their well-thought-out plan for sharing their news with immediate family.

Alex texted during my commute asking me not to tell my husband Ken, who, himself, was going to become a first-time grandfather.

What?

While I didn’t agree with their request, I honored it, which was not easy.

I remained alone in my excitement and in my thoughts of what this unexpected interaction and discovery meant for them and for our family.

Finally, on March 20, 2021, during half-time of a March Madness game, Alex led Ken into a bedroom now displaying an assembled crib with a Louisville Cardinals onesie straddling the rail. The repressed thrill and joy were finally released and shared by all.

I was going to be a grandmother and all that came with it.

Jaxon Alexander arrived August 3, 2021.

Noah Lee was born September 18, 2023.

Our lives have never been the same, and that is such a beautiful & wonderful thing.

Don’t Feel Like a Grandma

I struggled a bit with the title of grandma. The role came easier.

I always knew I could possibly one day be called grandma but I seldom gave thought to how this new role would affect my life, or my identity. Honestly, I never dreamt of or had a vision of life as a grandma. I occasionally thought about it but it was definitely not an obsession or a demand of my son.

I knew many women honored with this title before me who cherish the role and the time with their grandchildren. These grandmas, nor I, look anything like my German Russian North Dakota grandmothers looked to my childish eyes. They seemed old in appearance and behavior. They also were of the generation where grandchildren were “seen but not heard” so I have little to no memory of outstanding shared experiences with either of them.

One thing I definitely knew was that I wanted a more involved role like many of today’s grandmothers who seem vibrant, youthful and fun, yet mature. This style seemed to be the best fit for me.

Unspoken Shifts in Life

Undoubtedly in healthy families there is unbridled joy and excitement about adding a grandchild to the family. There are also many unspoken shifts in life for all involved.

  • Your child becomes a parent. As the mother of an only child living close by, accepting this changing role for Alex was huge. I had so many moments of introspection and questions. Did I do enough to prepare him to become a dad? Was I a good example of healthy parenting? What role will I play in their family’s life? I had, and have, many flashbacks of parenting Alex, the joy, the uncertainty and even the fear of the unknown. I knew I looked forward to bonding with him on another level-as a parent. This is a seismic role shift for each of us as we are building a legacy together.
  •  You are now seen as old. I feel youthful and active, yet merely by association I am old. In fact, sometimes I utter those words when our toddler’s expectations of me exceed my ability.
  • Grandparent Role Changes Over Time. My grandparents lived nearby. I saw them often but had little memorable interaction with them. Alex’s grandparents lived 1000s of miles away. We live nearby. Geography plays a role in interactions, so does today’s technology like Facetime. I wanted to change how I interacted with my grandparents and how my parents were able to be grandparents. I chose to be as involved as Alex’s family wanted me to be. I want to nurture the relationships and create close bonds.
  • More Love & Gratitude. Interacting with our grandsons, Jaxon and Noah, has been one of my life’s happiest times. I am forever appreciative for this precious time together and often am overwhelmed with love and gratitude.
  • Question the Sexiness. I wrestled with my identity as a professional woman with an active lifestyle now being called a grandma. Is that title sexy? Maybe to some it is. To me, being sexy was never part of my image. Being able to flip roles and adopt change quickly is. Being sexy was a non-issue for me, though I know many who admit struggling with how others see them now that they are grandmothers.
  • Focus on the Cycle of Life & Mortality. Becoming a grandparent abruptly alerts you to the cycle of life and one’s own mortality. It made me focus on creating a legacy of life lessons and sharing wisdom.
  • Time Shifts. I have put aside other “things” to spend this beautiful time with our grandsons. I recognize this time is limited. In the blink of an eye, they will be school age and spending time with their friends, which is healthy child development. I don’t want this time to go by without as many reasonable moments together as possible. I’m focused on creating connections through adventures and experiences filled with love, laughter and learning.

Rediscovering Play

One of the most surprising benefits of time together with the grandsons has been rediscovering play.

As the second oldest of nine children and a business owner while raising Alex, my playtime was limited.

Today, I am taking full advantage of playtime. I’ve given myself the freedom to let loose, be silly and heartily laugh while also relearning the art of patience.

In fact, the oldest grandson, Jaxon, spends Mondays with me. If we are lucky, we also get to spend weekend time together as an extended family.

On Mondays, I create “projects” for us to do, including outdoor playtime.

This time has left me with endless joy experiencing the world through his fresh and curious eyes while creating unforgettable moments and memories.

He has taught me a new sense of wonder and playfulness.

Stay Active

Toddlers are quite active and being “in shape” has allowed me to join in games and adventures and fully experience the joy of playtime while never “acting my age.”

In a short period of time, I have:

  • Pushed strollers
  • Gone down endless slides
  • Built and crawled in blanket forts
  • Thrown, caught and chased balls
  • Done yoga for kids
  • Planted and cared for vegetables
  • Made nearly every pudding flavor available
  • Enjoyed pillow fights
  • Painted tons of rocks
  • Made mud pies and “stinky potions”
  • Danced the polka and swayed to jazz music
  • Giggled while shooting silly string
  • Answered the question “why” a gazillion times
  • Wondered at the fast-paced, technology-driven world they are growing up in

My Best Advice

  • Define the role in a way that best fits your life and your values, knowing this can change with the age of the child, family circumstances and geographical distance.
  • Keep an open line of communication with the parents.
  • Define boundaries. Know what you are capable of giving and when you need rest.
  • Be in the moment to enjoy first-time experiences and other simple pleasures.
  • Create traditions. (Per his request, Jaxon always eats pancakes, sausage and eggs at my house, regardless of time of day.)
  • Go with the flow. Laugh freely. Hug often. Love deeply.
  • Consider fingerprints on your glass door a privilege.

Having time to spend with grandchildren has to be one of the best parts of growing old. 

Every grandmother’s journey is unique. There is no one right way to navigate this special role.

One of the best feelings in the world is a little hand in yours and a sweet voice proclaiming, “I love you Grandma Linda”. It’s priceless. It comes without demand, expectation or condition.

May your life be rewarded watching your children grow into parents and blessing you with grandchildren whom you can provide infinite comfort and love.

Future Topics

What would you like to read more about?

  • How to navigate being a grandparent to more than one grandchild
  • Activities to keep grandchildren engaged
  • Observations of my husband as a grandfather
  • How distance affects grandparent-grandchild relationships
  • What if your parents choose not to play a role in your child’s life
  • Grandparents raising grandchildren
  • Something else?

©April 2025 Linda Leier Thomason. All Rights Reserved.

Planning a Reunion Guests Will Love

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Why Attend a Reunion

A reunion is defined as two or more people coming together after a period of separation.

For some, the idea of attending a reunion creates anxiety and uncertainty. How will I be seen by the other guests? Has my body shape changed? Has my occupation netted rewards matching other guests? Am I good enough? What will I say to these people I haven’t seen in decades?

For others the cost of travel and lodging can create financial anxiety.

If planned and orchestrated well, reunions should never be anxiety provoking. Instead, the event and the overall experience should yield recalled memories while creating new, happy memories. Guests should leave feeling reconnected and like their time and money were spent well.

A Good Reunion Will

  • Strengthen bonds. Reunions allow guests to reconnect and participate in meaningful conversation while rebuilding the relationship.
  • Create a Sense of Belonging. Both family and school reunions remind us of the need to feel part of a community and to belong to something greater than oneself. They give us a sense of place within our families or our schools.
  • Promote Personal Growth. Reunions provide invaluable insight into our personalities and life choices. School reunions remind us of the role we played as students and how we saw ourselves and how others saw us. Family reunions help us understand our life choices and even our personalities as we hear the stories and experiences of our elders and cousins.

2 Reunions, 1 Summer

I co-planned two reunions in the Summer of 2024: One family, the other collegiate.

The Reis Girls Reunion was held in Bismarck, North Dakota in June. The Iowa State University (ISU) Fisher-Nickell Reunion was held in Des Moines, Iowa in August.

The Reis Girls are granddaughters of my maternal grandparents. Twenty-one attended alongside the two remaining daughters of Pius and Juliana Reis’s 12 children. An all-inclusive Reis Reunion was held the next day with over 100 attendees.

Reis Girls

Fisher Nickell was a freestanding co-ed house on the campus of ISU where I lived in the early 80s. Coming from a family of 11, this environment felt familiar. Like many, I thrived there and developed lasting friendships here. Twenty-five attended this event. Most had not seen one another in over four decades.

Fisher Nickell House, Iowa State University

Value of Reunions

Reunions can evoke powerful emotions and, if produced well, can be valuable to our well-being. They encourage reconnection with others and allow us to learn more about ourselves. They also:

  • Strengthen bonds
  • Deepen a sense of belonging
  • Evoke nostalgia or a sentimentality of the past, especially if reliving happy memories
  • Allow one to understand family history
  • Create lifelong memories

There is no substitute for being face-to-face with those who are related to you and/or shared in your early years. Attendees may reminisce with you and recall events or experiences you have long forgotten. They can remind you of the value you had in their life.

Family reunions can be particularly fulfilling as they

  • Bring together relatives who have never met. For instance, spouses, newborns, etc.
  • Encourage staying in touch with family after the reunion period. (Many use private Facebook pages for this specific purpose.).
  • Provide ancestral information on their family. (At the greater Reis reunion, a cousin presented her extensive family history research in a PowerPoint presentation that was well received by guests of all ages. It was informational and provided endless insight to our shared heritage.).
  • Celebrate the meaning of family by sharing memories and encouraging a sense of belonging to something greater than your family of origin.

15 Tips for Successful Reunions

  • Create a leadership team (event planners) with at least one person residing in or near the reunion site.
  • Start early. Two years is not too early to announce a reunion date.
  • Promote the reunion on social media. A private page on Facebook seems to be a popular way to do this.
  • Keep it affordable. Collect funds before the event. Have a registrar at the event to sign guests in and give name tags.
  • Choose a location with indoor space to avoid weather related issues.
  • Ensure the site has accessible toilets and even grounds and ramps for those with limited mobility.
  • Create a healthy menu that includes items all can eat. [Inquire in early communications if there are specific diet restrictions that can be accommodated.]
  • Arrange for group lodging discounts in the nearby area.
  • Plan interactive ice breakers early in the gathering. These should seek information that showcase shared interests and/or experiences.
  • Avoid an event whereby everyone shows up but there are no planned activities, or worse yet, planned activities were announced but aren’t initiated. Find ways to create interaction.
  • Allow everyone an opportunity to speak or engage. Create a circle and ask guests to introduce themselves with certain information, usually no more than 3 items.
  • Honor and respect the elder members, especially at family reunions. Create speaking opportunities for them to share family history and stories.
  • Do not share guest contact information without permission. Create a guest list with telephone numbers and emails of all guests who’ve granted permission.
  • Create traditions. For instance, each time the group meets, it plays a certain card game, has a tug-of-war, has a video presentation of each family’s additions and updates, etc. Foods associated with family heritage are a great way to showcase traditions.
  • Ask someone to take photos and to create an album to share with all registrants.

What tips can you add to this list? Why do you enjoy reunions? SHARE.

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Omaha Film Festival

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98 Films, 6 Days

Winning two All Film Access Passes through KVNO radio station https://kvno.org/ introduced us to an Omaha event we thoroughly appreciated and enjoyed and plan to support and attend annually.

What is it?

The 19th Annual Omaha Film Festival (OFF) https://omahafilmfestival.org/ held February 27-March 3, 2024 at the Aksarben Theatre in Omaha, Nebraska showcased 98 films through special screenings, feature films, documentary films, a Nebraska spotlight film, and short films.

The event also included a Saturday Scriptwriters Theatre where live reads from selected excerpts from the 2024 screenplay finalists were done. And, notably, a two-day OFF Academy open to 7th-12th grade Omaha students was held to educate, entertain and inspire future filmmakers.

How Films are Selected

Local and international filmmakers submit their work to OFF each year from May through December. A selection committee then selects the narrative features, short films, documentaries and screenplays to be shown at the festival.  

The selected filmmakers are invited to attend the festival. They are given the opportunity to discuss their films with the audience through a Q&A session after each screening.

Festival Highlight

Marc Longbrake, OFF Executive Director & Wait for Me Film Director, Keith Farrell, UK.

Viewing independent films with filmmakers from across the world in the theatre adds to the experience. Listening to them describe their passion, processes, joys and challenges after viewing the films is something you should experience.

Audiences vote for the Audience Choice Awards through ballots after each film. These awards and 18 others are presented at the festival’s conclusion. 

Event Cost & Passes

The 2024 festival offered four different ways to experience the festival.

All Access Passes

  • Access to all screenings throughout the festival
  • Entry to the Writers Theatre
  • Access to the nightly after parties
  • Event t-shirt

All Films Pass

  • Access to all screenings throughout the festival
  • Entry to Writers Theatre

Weekend Pass

  • Access to all screenings
  • Entry to Writers Theatre
  • Access to Saturday & Sunday after parties

Film Ticket

  • $10 per film

HINT: In 2023 the Festival held a Black Friday sale announced on their Instagram site. https://www.instagram.com/omahafilmfest/

2024 Films at Event

Click on the Film Guide link https://off24.eventive.org/films  for more information on films shown during the 2024 Omaha Film Festival.

Films We Chose to See

  • Junction–Drama on opioid epidemic telling the story of how a doctor, an addict and a pharmaceutical company CEO are all interconnected.
  • Scrap-Drama/Comedy about a single-mom living in a car and hiding her status from her estranged brother who’s caring for her daughter.
  • The Body Politic-documentary on Baltimore’s young, idealistic mayor, Brandon Scott, and his vigilant attempt to halt chronic violence in his city. Awarded Audience Favorite Documentary.
  • Wait for Me–Drama/Thriller from the United Kingdom focusing on prostitution, troubled pasts and making better choices.
  • Brave the Dark-Drama based on a true story about Nate, who attended the festival, and a drama teacher who became his true father. Awarded Audience Choice Feature Film & Critics Best Feaature Film.
  • The Headliner-Nebraska spotlight film about an Omaha comedian trying to reach a larger stage while also meeting family obligations.
  • Two Lives in Pittsburgh-Drama about a blue collar guy confronting his animated mother’s illness and his child’s exploration of gender. Awarded Critics Feature Film Honorable Mention.
  • Step Over-Italian Drama with English captions about a legendary soccer player who had it all and then didn’t.
  • Tokyo Cowboy–Japanese Drama with English captions about a Japanese businessman who visits a Montana cattle ranch and learns what matters most in his life.

OFF Results-Winners

Visit the Omaha Film Festival website to see a complete list of the winners by category. https://omahafilmfestival.org/

IMDb

IMDb (Internet movie database) is an online database of information related to films, television series, podcasts, home videos, video games, and streaming content online – including cast, production crew and personal biographies, plot summaries, trivia, ratings, and fan and critical reviews.

Log in to https://www.imdb.com/ for ratings, reviews and where to watch these movies.

Ways to Support OFF

The Omaha Film Festival is a non-profit 501c3 non-profit organization.

You can support its efforts of bringing independent films to the Omaha area several ways.

Final Thoughts

  • Some have said that film festivals are for left-winged or radical people. That was not our experience.
  • We are not film buffs by any standard, yet we enjoyed not only viewing the films but also interacting with attendees, filmmakers and the legions of volunteers at the OFF.
  • (Interesting note: No one associated with the Omaha Film Festival receives a salary, including the hard-working, gregarious Executive Director, Marc Longbrake).
  • Our favorite films aligned with those receiving audience awards. Each of these films can inspire social change or, at the very least, leave you examining your current way of thinking about the film’s content.
  • Except for Saturday and Sunday, the films started after 5PM and ended by 10PM.
  • Aksarben Cinema https://www.acxcinemas.com/aksarben-cinema is a locally owned theatre with comfortable reclining and rocking seats. It has a full bar and offers a very limited menu in addition to the standard theatre popcorn, soda and candy.
  • Most restaurants in the Aksarben area close at or before festival films conclude. Plan accordingly.
  • There is plenty of free parking surrounding the Aksarben Cinema.

Credit

Thanks again to KVNO for the passes and for introducing us to this spectacular, well-run event.

©March2024 Linda Leier Thomason. All Rights Reserved.

Anguilla: Everything You Need to Know Before Going

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Aboard boat from St. Maarten to Anguilla.

We left Omaha, Nebraska’s record-setting cold temperatures and snowfall in mid-January 2024 for the tranquil island of Anguilla, the most northerly of the Eastern Caribbean’s Leeward Islands.

Anguilla is 12 miles north of St. Maarten and 60 miles northwest of St. Kitts and Nevis.

This British overseas territory is only 16 miles long and 3 miles wide at its widest point. It boasts a mean temperature of 80 degrees.

History

Click this link to learn about Anguilla’s history.  Government of Anguilla – About Anguilla – Tourism – Anguilla History

Getting There

Anguilla (rhymes with vanilla) is off-the-beaten-path.

We were able to access the island by flying into St. Maarten from Atlanta, GA via Delta Airlines.

Princess Juliana International Airport (SXM) is on the Dutch side of St. Martin and is close to the shore of Simpson Bay Lagoon. This airport is famous for its low-altitude flyover landing approaches.

We can testify that it is the second busiest airport in the Caribbean since it serves as a hub for many smaller islands. The lines to get through Customs and Immigration were exceedingly long as two large aircrafts from the USA had landed within minutes of each other. (Restrooms, accessible outside while waiting in line, are available.)

Thankfully we were part of the Edward Jones Travel Award Program and were led through Customs and Immigration in time to catch our boat ride to Anguilla where we again cleared Customs and Immigration and eventually claimed our luggage.

Know Before Traveling

Public Beaches in Anguilla

Anguilla is ringed with 33 public beaches.

We visited several. Each was stunningly white with powder soft sand.

While we were there, the waters on Rendezvous Bay by our property were choppy due to very high winds. Each day there were red flag warnings preventing us, and most guests, from entering the unsafe waters.

📷Linda Leier Thomason Alternative to red flag beach warnings: Infinity edge pool at Aurora Anguilla.

Currency

US currency is widely accepted, though the Eastern Caribbean dollar (XCD) is their official currency. (The exchange rate is fixed at 2.70 XCD for $1USD.)

Electricity

110 Volts, AC

Type A and B electric plugs (the same as in the US and Canada)

Language

Anguilla is British dependent territory where English is spoken.

Time

Anguilla operates on Atlantic Standard time year-round. If it’s 1PM in Anguilla, it’s 11AM in Chicago and Noon in Boston, etc.

Our Accommodations: Aurora Anguilla Resort & Golf Club

Aurora Anguilla Resort | Your Caribbean Paradise Awaits

The resort is on the Southwestern coast of Anguilla, facing the neighboring island of Saint Martin. There are 178 villas and suites set on 380 acres running along over 2 miles of spectacular white sand beaches.

The property is stunning, exceptionally maintained and staffed with knowledgeable, friendly, service-oriented hospitality staff.

Entertainment Park

In January 2024, the Aurora Entertainment Park on the property opened. Entertainment Park | Fun and Thrills Await at Aurora Anguilla

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Guest from outside of the property can purchase tickets to the Entertainment Park. Admission is complimentary for resort guests. SquadUP – Create an Event, Share an Experience

The complex includes tennis, pickle ball, table tennis, miniature golf, volleyball, basketball, a climbing wall, a water park complex, kids club and a teen center.

A 500-seat amphitheater hosts events, including live music events and karaoke nights. Check the daily schedule.

Food trucks were on site in the dining court during our visit.

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On-Site Tours & Classes

Guests can enjoy tours of the hydroponic farm on the Aurora Anguilla site, cooking classes, wine tastings, and golf clinics with PGA-certified professionals.

📷Linda Leier Thomason Hydroponic Farm tour.

Golf

Golf at Aurora Anguilla | A Golfer’s Paradise

Aurora Anguilla is home to the only golf course on the island, including the International Course, which was recently ranked #2 best Caribbean course.

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Dining Scene

We were impressed by Anguilla’s culinary scene.

It has over 100 restaurants serving diverse and delicious dishes using fresh local flavors from the land and sea. (Goat is the most popular meat.)

Be sure to try local specialties like crayfish, lobster, johnnycakes and goat curry.

Restaurants serving Mexican, Italian and French cuisine are also available.

Keep in mind that most of the food is imported because farming is both difficult and space is limited in Antigua, increasing food costs.

The average daily spending on food is about $122 per person.

Use this link to create a list of restaurants to try while on the island.

8 Best Restaurants in Anguilla of 2024 (destination-magazines.com)

Getting Around

Requirements for Driving in Anguilla

Guide to Driving In Anguilla – Drive Safe in Anguilla (rhinocarhire.com)

Rent a Moke

Moke Anguilla

A Moke is a type of open-top vehicle popular in Anguilla. It’s a fun way to explore this small island’s beaches, bars and other attractions.

Hints

  • Vehicles drive on the left.
  • Speed limit is 30MPH.
  • There are only 6 traffic lights on the island.

Chauffeur

Not renting a vehicle? Let Simba chauffeur you.

He’s an excellent, professional driver with a clean vehicle. He’s also a police officer on the island.

Things to Do

Anguilla is a paradise for travelers who love nature, beauty, and relaxation.

Guided Tour

We spent a morning with Mr. Bernard B. Wattley touring the island and learning about the history and culture of Anguilla and how Anguillans live (school, church, government, family life, etc.)

There is nothing like hearing about a vacation destination from one who has lived on the island his entire life.

Ask any native Anguillan if they know Mr. Wattley. The answer is always, “Yes.”  He’s a retired public servant and educator who remains active in local government.

Visit the Arch

The Anguilla Arch is a natural limestone arch on the western tip of Anguilla near Cove Bay and West Bay beaches. It is known for its stunning beauty and its dramatic location. Access it by hiking along the cliff-side coast or taking a boat tour.

Bankie Banx

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Next door to the Aurora Anguilla Resort sits Dune Preserve DUNE PRESERVE | banx (bankiebanx.net) where renowned musician Bankie Banx performs on select days.

Check the weekly schedule for reservations and performances.

Sandy Ground

Anguilla Beaches Walk… Sandy Ground Beach and Village (anguilla-beaches.com)

Hint: The area is as the name implies-sandy. Wear appropriate footwear.

Summer Festival in Conjunction with Emancipation Day

Anguilla’s Emancipation Day is celebrated the first Monday in August, known as August Monday.  It commemorates the abolition of slavery in 1834.

The Speed Boat Festival which is part of the Anguilla Summer Festival is also held then.

Unlike many Caribbean countries where cricket is the national sport, in Anguilla boat racing is their national sport.

The Speed Boat Festival is a thrilling competition where speed boats race around the island, stopping at different beaches and cays along the way. Participants and spectators enjoy music, food and drink at each stop.

Safety

Anguilla is generally a safe and peaceful island.

However, it is still vulnerable to natural disasters, such as hurricanes, earthquakes, and volcanic eruptions, which can cause damage, disruption, or danger. 

Anguilla has a very low crime rate compared to other Caribbean islands, but it is not immune to crime.

Violent crimes and kidnappings are rare. Visitors are always encouraged to be alert to their surroundings and practice safety measures.

According to the Royal Anguilla Police Force, the most frequent crimes in Anguilla for the third quarter of 2020 were:

  • Theft: 97 cases
  • Burglary: 33 cases
  • Criminal damage: 17 cases
  • Robbery: 7 cases
  • Assault: 6 cases

Taxes

Anguilla is a beautiful island in the Caribbean, but it is also one of the most expensive destinations in the region with high rates for accommodations, food and taxes.

In January 2024, the goods and services tax (GST) was 13%. Another 15% service tax is added when dining out. In addition to those taxes, there is an expectation that a minimum of $5 per server also be given.

Tidbits

  • There are no shopping malls, cruise ships or high-rise hotels on Anguilla. It is a low-key island.
  • Anguilla does not have an official Independence Day, as it is still a British overseas territory. However, it has a national day called Anguilla Day, which is celebrated on May 30th every year.  This day honors the island’s determination of independence from Saint Kitts and Nevis in 1967.
  • Anguilla’s peak tourist season is December through April. Low season is May to November. Be aware that many hotels close, especially August-October for maintenance, renovation or vacation.
  • If you visit Anguilla during low season, there is a possibility of hurricanes and reduced availability of services. However, you may also find less crowds and lower prices at places that remain open. Do your research.
  • Staying awhile, visit the west end Best Buy grocery store.
  • Small galleries and boutiques are mostly concentrated in the capital area of Anguilla called The Valley. There is a duty-fee shop in the St. Maarten airport worth checking out.

More Information

More Information

For information on Anguilla please visit the official website of the Anguilla Tourist Board: Visit Anguilla | The Official Travel Guide of Anguilla | ivisitanguilla.com

©February2024 Linda Leier Thomason. All Rights Reserved.

Everything You Need to Inspire a Trip to Slovenia

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Natural Disasters

Let’s hope the trend of natural disasters ends with this recent journey.

In February 2023 our New Zealand trip was diverted to Brisbane, Australia due to Cyclone Gabrielle. Highlights & Pitfalls of 2 Weeks in Australia – Linda Leier Thomason

August 4, 2023, when we arrived in Ljubljana, Slovenia, the country was experiencing record-setting flooding with widespread damage.  Slovenia – Record Rain and Floods Cause Widespread Damage – FloodList

Our destination was Portoroz, Slovenia in the southern part of the country where it was raining but not flooding.

On any other day the drive from the capital city of Ljubljana (translates as ‘the loved one’) to Portoroz is 90 minutes. This day it took nearly three hours as many highways were understandably closed.

Sitting in the tour bus, we flashbacked to the multiple times as former Charleston, South Carolina residents, we evacuated preparing for hurricanes to come ashore.

The clogged highway and feelings of uncertainty were evident and felt.

A link if you’re inspired to donate to the re-building efforts in Slovenia.

Donate to Floods in Slovenia Emergency – GlobalGiving

How to Get There & Back: USA

We flew on United Airlines from Omaha, Nebraska to Chicago O’ Hare International Airport. There we boarded Lufthansa-the flag carrier of Germany. This airline is also one of the five founding members of Star Alliance, the world’s largest airline alliance founded in 1997. Home – Star Alliance

The aircraft, personnel and service each provided a sense of comfort and security for the 8 hour and 20-minute journey to Frankfurt, Germany. There, after clearing Customs, we were transported via a bus on the tarmac to board a regional carrier for Ljubljana. Upon arrival in Slovenia, no immigration and customs checks were necessary at the Ljubljana airport.

Our return flight departed from Munich instead of Frankfurt-a 9 hour and 50-minute trip back to Chicago. The flight was delayed out of Germany causing us to miss our connection to Omaha.

Lufthansa provided generous vouchers for lodging and food. Unlike the February 2023 experience, this was seamless and hospitable.

Much gratitude to Lufthansa for a very favorable travel experience.

Slovenia’s Location & Recent History

Slovenia is the size of New Jersey.

In 2023, the population is 2.12 million. There are 212 municipalities.

It once was part of Yugoslavia.

Today it is a democratic republic founded on the principle of the separation of powers into legislative, executive and judicial power.

Most of the people are Roman Catholic.

Statehood Day is a holiday that occurs every June 25th. It commemorates the country’s declaration of independence from Yugoslavia in 1991. Slovenia’s declaration jumpstarted the Ten-Day War with Yugoslavia, which it eventually won.

Statehood Day is not to be confused with Slovenia’s Independence and Unity Day which is celebrated each year on December 26th in honor of the December 26, 1990, official proclamation of the results of the plebiscite held three days earlier in which 88.5% of all Slovenian voters were in favor of Slovenia becoming a sovereign nation.

On January 15, 1992, the independence of Croatia and Slovenia was recognized by the international community. Slovenia, Croatia, and Bosnia and Herzegovina would later be admitted as member states of the United Nations on May 22, 1992. Macedonia was admitted as a member state of the United Nations on April 8, 1993; its membership approval took longer than the others due to Greek objections.

Interestingly, Croatia’s Independence Day is celebrated on the same day, as the two countries declared their statehood and recognized each other’s sovereignty on the same day.

Interesting Facts about Slovenia

  • Slovenia is the only country in the world with the word love in its name.
  • It is known to be one of the safest countries in the world.
  • The currency of Slovenia is the Euro.
  • Electric converters and adapters are necessary in the country if you’re from the USA.
  • Lake Bled is the most popular tourist destination. All You Need To Know To Visit Lake Bled In Slovenia – Travel Slovenia (The tour we’d scheduled here prior to leaving the USA was cancelled due to the severe flooding.) This is the most famous wedding place in Slovenia. Tradition says the groom must carry his bride up the 99 steps to ensure a long and happy marriage.
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  • Brown bears roam the Slovenian forests. We were told by multiple tour guides that Slovenia now exports bears to surrounding countries. All You Need to Know to Meet With the Wild Slovenia Bears | Slovenia Tour
  • 1 out of every 200 people in this nation is a beekeeper. Like neighboring Croatia, Slovenia is known for an abundance of lavender fields. Strolling amongst the fields of Slovenian lavender in Starše (itinari.com)
  • NBA player, Luka Doncic, and former first lady, Melania Trump, are Slovenian natives.
  • It is the country with the largest number of tractors per person: One in 17 in 2023.
  • Salt farming occurs on the coast south of Piran. Piran and salt pans | I feel Slovenia
  • Slovenia has diverse and beautiful natural settings. More than 61% of Slovenia’s total land area is covered in forest. This makes Slovenia one of the greenest countries in the world. It combines the Alps, the Mediterranean, the Pannonian Plain and the Karst. Slovenia contains 250 waterfalls.
  • Slovenia is home to the Lipizzaner horse-a national symbol of Slovenia.
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  • There are 46 different dialects in Slovenia. The Slovene language is the primary language followed by German and English. Speaking English with locals was never a problem.
  • Slovenia has more than 10,000 caves with 22 open to the public. Postojna Cave, the biggest and the longest cave system in the world, is the most popular. Postojna Cave Park (postojnska-jama.eu)
  • Slovenes love their wine, they are the sixth biggest consumers of wine per capita. There is one winery or vineyard for every 75 people. The oldest vine in the world is in Slovenia’s second largest city, Maribor; it has been producing grapes since the 16th century.
  • Piran, Slovenia on the southern coast is a must-see destination. It is a short walk or public bus ride from Portoroz and is filled with interesting architecture, art, shops, cozy cafes and restaurants.

Southern Coast-Where We Stayed & Toured

As part of the Edward Jones Travel Award Program (TAP), we stayed at the Kempinski Palace Hotel in the center of Portoroz, Istria, Slovenia. On the above map it is near Piran (bottom left). 5 Star Luxury Hotel in Portoroz, Slovenia | Kempinski Palace Portoroz

The property is divided into two buildings: original and modern. We were housed in the original building on the 5th floor with a hillside view. NOTE: The property does accept pets. Irons and ironing boards are not in individual rooms, but available upon request.

The staff, the fitness center, swimming pool (indoor and outdoor) and sauna areas were outstanding. Some of the best we’ve experienced in our travels.

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📷www.lindaleierthomason.com Newer addition to hotel.

Piran Day Trips

We spent most of two days in the city of Piran.

One day was a sponsored scenic group city walking tour highlighting Piran’s most interesting and fascinating sights. Tartini Square-a Venetian feeling square of white marble surrounded by wonderful architecture dedicated to its most famous citizen-Guiseppe Tartini- a violinist and composer- was always bursting with activity. All You Need To Know To Visit Tartini Square In Piran, Slovenia (travelslovenia.org)

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We were fortunate to tour the Guiseppe Tartini Memorial Room and listen to a performance from a local award-winning violinist: a trip highlight.

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Another day we walked along the seawall to Piran, stopping often to take in the spectacular views.

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Piran feels and looks like many Italian cities. Residents and guests alike move in a relaxed manner and comfortably rest and visit wherever is desirable and convenient.

One could spend days in this city, exploring, shopping, eating gelato, drinking coffee and enjoying many fine restaurants.

NOTES:

  1. Toilets are scarce and many require a Euro coin to use. Be prepared.
  2. Mercator is the largest retail company/supermarket chain in Slovenia. One is within a very comfortable walking distance of the Kempinski Hotel in Portoroz, and multiple stores are in Piran.
  3. On our trip, city bus drivers were not helpful. Work with the hotel concierge to determine which public bus route to use if you plan to ride the bus in the coastal region.
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📷www.lindaleierthomason.com Typical alley view.

Family-Friendly Portoroz

Within minutes of the front door of the hotel, there are multiple family-friendly recreation and entertainment options for children of all ages to enjoy: land and water. There are also plenty of dining options at all price points.

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📷www.lindaleierthomason.com He and his brother & father doing impressive dives into the sea.

Side Trips from Portoroz

Casino

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We did a Portoroz day hike and happened upon this casino at the hilltop. Since we didn’t have identification (passports) on us, admission was denied.

The views are spectacular and worth the hike up there.

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Olive Farm

📷www.lindaleierthomason.com 100+ year old olive tree on farm.

We enjoyed an informational tour and buffet dinner with live music at the olive processing facility at the Lisjak Olive Farm near Koper, a city on Slovenia’s Adriatic coast.

www.lisjak.com

Our story – Gregor Lisjak extra virgin olive oil

Lisjak – Official Guide to the World’s Best Olive Oils

📷www.lindaleierthomason.com Memorable evening at olive farm.

Other Side Trips

Portorož to Venice – 5 ways to travel via train, bus, ferry, car, and shuttle (rome2rio.com)

Bike and motorbike hire – Portorož – Piran (portoroz.si)

Home | Piran, Slovenia | Vintage Boat Tours (vintage-boat-tours.com)Gastronomy | Slovensko podeželje | Združenje turističnih kmetij Slovenije (farmtourism.si)

More Information

Slovenia International Travel Information (state.gov)

Portorož – Piran (portoroz.si)

Piran and salt pans | I feel Slovenia

The BEST Slovenia Tours and Things to Do in 2023 – FREE Cancellation | GetYourGuide

Tours, sightseeing tours, activities & things to do | Viator.com

Final Thoughts

First and foremost, we are extremely grateful for the opportunity to travel and to experience the world with Ken’s peers.

Slovenia is a hidden gem. It is relatively easy to reach. Once there, the people are friendly and getting around is exceptionally easy. They even drive on the same side of the road as we do in America.

No matter where we went, we felt safe, regardless of the time of day.

Portoroz is very walkable for all levels of mobility.

Since there is so much of the world we have yet to see, we seldom say we’d return to a place we’ve previously visited.

Portoroz, Slovenia is the exception. We’d return, hopefully with our family in tow.

LIKE & SHARE & Definitely let me know if you’ve made a trip to Slovenia. What were the highlights? Any pitfalls?

©August2023 Linda Leier Thomason. All Rights Reserved.